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Price
of Stubbornness
The
Three Groups: Which do you belong to?
Life
Swapping
Lifeosophy
How
to choose your new home?
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Price
of Stubbornness |
SEE
Han Teen, M.SCI
Geomancy, Life Analysis and Healing (10 April 2009)
Price
of Stubbornness
Got a strange
call the other day. I was requested to attend a wake. The person
who made the call was the widow, Mrs Sim. Between her sobs, she
said that her husband has passed away due to a tragic car accident.
She expressed that she would very much like me to attend the wake
even though it is a strange request. I did not really ask for details
of why she wanted me to be there and agreed anyway despite of my
uneasiness. I was feeling uncomfortable because I do not really
know her husband and certainly do not know her.
I went to the
wake which was held in the garden of the house and requested to
see Mrs Sim. I was being led to her. When she saw me, she got me
a drink and signaled me to go to her house. I followed her into
the living room. She pointed to an item sitting on the TV console
area. It looks familiar! It is a tin container, those type that
I have been using to pack most of my products. For clients who have
bought Feng Shui items from me will be able to visualize what type
of tin container I am referring to. I looked at Mrs Sim and expecting
her to fill in the blanks that I have. She requested me to sit down,
opened the tin container and pull out the tiny three legged frog
that I have been selling. This certainly brought flashbacks. I recalled
how I got to know her husband. He approached me about half a year
ago. He called me to explain that he has been involved in car accidents
very frequently that year and was wondering what Feng Shui items
can help to protect him. I recommend the three legged frog. Piecing
this together with the information that Mr Sim passed on due to
car accident, a chill went through my spine. I was expecting myself
to be thrown out of the house at that instant because my product
obviously did not work. To my surprise, Mrs Sim broke down and started
crying very loudly instead. I looked at her silently, waiting for
her to calm herself down. After some time, she started to tell me
what happened after Mr Sim got the three legged frog from me.
She said that
Mr Sim placed the three legged frog on the car’s dashboard
as per instructed by me. As he fetched her home from work that very
day, she saw the frog sitting on the dashboard. She was horrified
and disgusted by the item. Mr Sim explained that he had been getting
involved with car accidents and began to be quite worried. From
my recommendation, this item could protect him. She did not believe
that these things would be able to have any protection effects and
she heard that evil could even reside in them. She was so furious
over it and requested Mr Sim to remove it immediately. He was very
reluctant and tried to test his luck by leaving the frog there for
the next day. In the next morning, Mrs Sim saw it again and was
furious about it. She scolded Mr Sim throughout the whole journey
from her house to her office and insisted that Mr Sim better remove
it before she threw it away herself. Her request was granted. She
did not see the item ever since. She knew that her husband has minor
car accidents after that but she thought it was normal, until the
last one. Her husband was literally crushed behind the wheels.
As she was packing
Mr Sim’s things, she saw this raw little tin container tucked
away in a corner of Mr Sim’s drawer. She opened it and saw
something being bundled in a yellow cloth. She untied the cloth
and saw the three-legged frog. It brought her memory back about
how her husband was trying to use this three-legged frog and how
persistent she was to get it out of her sight. As she removed the
three legged frog, a small piece of yellow post-it paper dropped
out. A familiar handwriting of “Protection against car accidents”
was scribbled on it. It was her husband’s handwriting. She
sat there and cried for many hours till she fell asleep after discovering
this three legged frog. After she woke up, she has the sudden feeling
that she wanted to meet me to tell me what happened. This was what
prompted her to give me a call.
Though I was
relieved that I was not being cast out, it hurts deeper than that.
A man’s life was lost. I took a deep breath, tried to comfort
her and left. I really do not know what is appropriate for me to
say. What if Mr Sim has used the three legged frog as per instructed,
will he avoid his death? “What-if” is never a question
to be answered because We can only see the consequence of what is
done, not what is not done. I believe that Mrs Sim understands that
by telling me this will not bring her husband back. Is it her guilt?
Is it her grief? I cannot turn back the clock. I cannot say that
your husband is more afraid of you than taking the risk of death.
I cannot ask why you hate a stupid item more than your love for
your husband. Lifetime guilt is more than enough to bear.
What is the
advantage of knowing what is going to happen when nothing is being
done? What is good about doing something to improve situation by
carrying out the inappropriate course of actions? What is good about
knowing what is going to happen, doing the right thing and yet being
forbidden by people who you truly love? Life is simple but takes
a symphony to work it out. |
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The
Three Groups: Which do you belong to? |
SEE
Han Teen, M.SCI
Geomancy, Life Analysis and Healing (26 July 2008)
The
Three Groups: Which group do you belong to?
In previous centuries, when a fortune reading was done, it was the
accuracy of the results that people were looking for – positive
or negative. There was also the pride of the fortune reader as to
the accuracy of the predictions. During those times, due to the
low literacy rate, the shortage of information, the lack of technology
and infrastructure, there were a lot of "unexplainable"
events happening daily. People tended to adopt a "fate-believing
attitude". This was especially so in Asia. Even if they wanted
to avoid dangers or to reap benefits; there was a strong lack of
knowledge that prevented them from being able to do so. Wisdom and
knowledge were precious but yet difficult to come by due to it being
not easily available As a result, the majority of people tended
to travel along the path that was to the best of their knowledge
not adequate to change the course of their lives from that bestowed
to them by birth. Thus the majority led lives that were aligned
with their birth charts.
What is happening now? With literacy rates increasing, greater globalization
and technology improving, we cannot deny that we have the luxury
to enjoy so much information and conveniences compared to the generations
before us. Wisdom and knowledge is still as precious but is easier
to come by. The challenge is that we are going through an acceleration
of time and everything seems to happen too fast and we are exposed
to too much at any one time. Thus much information has been lost
due to a shortage of time, a lack of patience and being too absorbed
about one's own self. As a result, it creates three distinct groups
of people,
1. The Aligned:
the group who lead a life that is aligned with their birth charts
2. The Short-changed: the group who lead a life that is way below
their birth charts
3. The Achievers: the group who lead a life way beyond their birth
charts.
Previously,
there were a very large group of people falling into group 1 and
very few people who fell into groups 2 or 3. BUT nowadays, there
are more and more people leaving the 1st group to join the 2nd or
3rd group. Have you heard about the phrase "the rich are getting
richer and the poor are getting poorer"? This statement may
only be confined to the material sense. However, a similar trend
is happening within our lives with respect to what is bestowed upon
us by our birth chart.
Which group do you belong to? If you are one of those who have not
gotten your birth chart analyzed, most likely, you would not be
able to know which group you belong to. The birth chart acts as
a reference line for you to know whether you are under performing
or excelling in life. In a person's lifetime, there will always
be a possibility of switching from one group to another.
Let's talk about the easiest group of all, the first group who lead
life that is aligned with their birth charts. They are usually a
group of people who try their best but yet are unable to break out
of the patterns that life has set out for them. On a positive note,
they could work towards moving to the third group that would allow
them to no longer be bound by what is bestowed to them at birth.
On the other hand, there is an equivalent danger of them falling
into the second group if they are not cautious in their decisions.
The number of people falling into the second group has been increasing
in the last four decades. Who falls under this group? They are those
that not only are unable to reap the benefits from the positive
events that show up in their charts, but are also badly affected
during their negative periods. In other words, they are a group
of people who are terribly short changing themselves. How is it
possible for them to end up in this group when everybody would want
the best for themselves? Like one of my best friends in college
mentioned to me once – It is easier to pass an examination
than to fail. How does this happen? One could end up in this group
by making a long series of wrong decisions, having the wrong timing,
carrying out inappropriate actions and developing a repulsive personality
etc. There are a common series of traits and qualities that people
in this group are associated with. The irony is that such people
are either unaware or they choose not to know.
The third group that is envied by all is also increasing it's numbers
but at a much slower rate than the second group. This group of people
are no longer restricted by what is set out in their birth charts.
What does this mean? It means that they are able to achieve far
more than what is reflected in their birth charts. During good times,
they will have abundance and prosperity that is multiplied by many
folds. Even when it should be a "bad" time according to
their charts, they are not affected by it at all. There are also
a common series of traits or qualities that people in this group
or those who are moving into this group are associated with.
Which Group Do You Belong To? |
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Life
Swapping |
SEE
Han Teen, M.SCI
Geomancy, Life Analysis and Healing (15 November 2006)
It is the year-end,
which is one of the peak traveling periods for many Singaporeans.
This is a true account that I would like to share as a cautionary
tale. I have changed the names of people involved to protect their
identities. Although it takes place on an overseas vacation, the
warning applies equally whether abroad or at home.
Jessie was in her early thirties and like many of us loved to travel
and her last trip was to Taiwan. While visiting one of the tourist
attractions in Taiwan located near a temple, she decided to get
a souvenir for herself. She walked along the shops with curious
eyes. A well-dressed sales man managed to catch her attention. He
asked her what year she was born. She answered politely. He further
pursued to ask her the month she was born. “June,” she
replied. As she answered, there was a sparkle in the man’s
eye. He quickly pulled out an item and put it in Jessie’s
hand and she looked at it closely. It was a small-sculpted stone,
but Jessie could not make out what the item was. The man, with a
serious tone told her that this small ornament was a very powerful
item that could grant all her wishes, but she was not to tell anybody,
not even her closest friends, boyfriend or parents that she had
this ornament in her possession. He informed her to bring this item
wherever she went and not to allow anybody to touch it. Jessie was
thrilled and thought she had stumbled upon a great deal as the item
seemed very precious. She asked for the price and paid for the item.
Vacations like always were too short and she returned to Singapore.
On the day that she returned, she felt very exhausted as if the
life was draining out of her. She thought that it was due to the
traveling and excitement and did not bother too much about it. She
went to take a nap and as she rested, she started to feel an ache
in her stomach that grew into a continuous sharp pain. By nightfall,
the suffering was so intense that she went hysterical. She crawled
to the altar in her home and started to hit her head against the
altar. Her parents were shocked with her actions. Her father held
her tightly, to prevent her injuring herself while her mother called
for an ambulance. Strangely enough, in the midst of all the pain
and before she left with the ambulance, Jessie insisted that she
had to bring along her handbag before leaving for the hospital.
When she was sent to the hospital, it was already dawn and she was
sent for different tests and scans to determine the cause of her
pain. The sharp pain persisted and even got more intense. Her Aunt
Maggie heard the news that she was hospitalized and came to visit
her. While Aunt Maggie was with her, Jessie thought about letting
her employers know of her condition and hoped Aunt Maggie could
contact them on her behalf. She took out her handbag and pulled
out a pen to write the number on a piece of paper. As she pulled
out the pen, the small ornament, which Jessie had bought from Taiwan,
dropped on the floor. Aunt Maggie wanted to pick it up but Jessie
stopped her. She said if Aunt Maggie were to touch it, she would
have to have it cleansed. While Jessie was not looking, Aunt Maggie
quickly picked the ornament up and kept it. When Aunt Maggie was
out in the hallway, she scrutinized it. The ornament sent shivers
down her spine and she was very uncomfortable with the item so she
decided to talk to Jessie’s mother.
On the third day, the doctors informed Jessie’s parents that
they had confirmed that Jessie suffered from stomach cancer that
had reached the terminal stage and they had to prepare for the worst.
Jessie’s parents were not able to understand this sudden diagnosis,
as Jessie had not had any symptoms of stomach cancer. When Aunt
Maggie went to the hospital and met with Jessie’s mother,
Jessie’s mother broke the news to Aunt Maggie. Aunt Maggie
was shocked and also shared her discovery of the ornament with Jessie’s
mother. Jessie’s mother also had an uneasy feeling when she
saw the ornament. She felt very lost and desperate about her daughter’s
situation. Jessie’s mother and Aunt Maggie both knew of a
medium; Master Lim and it struck both of them that he might shed
some light as to the events. Aunt Maggie quickly called to arrange
to meet Master Lim. When they visited Master Lim, they showed the
ornament to Master Lim. At one glance, he told them that Jessie’s
life had been swapped with that of another girl who was probably
suffering from stomach cancer and was dying. The ornament was an
object to hold black magic, which would suck the life out of Jessie.
Both Jessie’s mother and Aunt Maggie queried whether there
was anything that could be done. He replied that it was too late
as the black magic cast was very powerful and the ornament had been
discovered too late. The black magic was targeted with certain criteria:
The victim had to be a girl who was born in a specific year and
month. The black magic would lose its power if other people apart
from Jessie touched it. However, in Jessie’s case the black
magic had already taken full effect and had become uncontrollable.
Thus, only direct family members were to be allowed to visit her
and even to send her off at her wake. The strange ornament was left
at the temple to be handled and disposed of appropriately.
Silently, and with great pain, Jessie left by the seventh day on
her return from her vacation.
Things to look out:
1. Usually you would not be instructed to keep it a secret about
buying anything, unless magic is involved.
2. It is untrue that other people apart from the owner cannot touch
blessed items. People that you are comfortable with can handle the
blessed items. Of course, it is not a good idea to let strangers
or anybody who you are not comfortable with to touch any of your
closely held items.
3. It is quite common for people to ask what year you are born in
when you are selecting items to suit your animal sign. If it is
only to deal with Chinese animal signs, they do not need to ask
for your birth month. If your birth month is requested for, you
can always ask which theories they are following. For example, when
selecting crystals and minerals according to astrology, we will
need to know what is the birth month and day.
4. Do not buy closely held items or jewelry from non-creditable
people, shops or organizations.
5. Many people may have the misconception that black magic can only
be cast on them if their eight characters (birth year, month, day
and time) are known. Eight characters are not necessary to cast
black magic on a specific person.
I have shared this true account as a caution to all that it is important
to exercise care when buying items, especially closely held items.
It is important to know whom you are buying from, where you are
buying from and what you are buying. Do not take things too lightly;
else there may be much to lose.
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Lifeosophy |
SEE
Han Teen, M.S. Statistics
Life Strategist, Feng Shui (13 August 2006)
Life is about
making choices. The sum of daily simple choices of what to do, whom
to go out with, where to go and even whom to seek helps determines
our future. No matter how the consequences of our choices may appear,
the importance is to learn from them well, and move on to the next
choice. Lessons learnt belong to no one except ourselves. Self-awareness
and honesty are vital for us to learn. The universe is designed
in such a way that we will be given a series of opportunities. With
what we have learnt, we are equipped to know what choices to make
and pick up the opportunities along the way. Lifeosophy are tips
to increase self-awareness and mindfulness to invoke an outer glow
and to being receptive to a life of abundance.
1. Have Positive
Thinking: Events are manifested from thoughts, words and actions.
Negative thoughts lead to negative words that have negative repercussion.
No matter to whom they are being outwardly channeled to or to whom
the negativities revolve around, it comes back to the initiator.
Program your thoughts and ignite the positive inner self. You will
attract anything positive like a magnet to your life.
2. Find Quiet
Time: Take some time off from communication. No talking, no checking
emails, no messaging, no reading materials. This is the time that
you enjoy the feeling of being whole.
3. Find Time
To Meditate: Be aware of your breathing. Be aware of how your thoughts
flow. Enjoy being part of the universe and being the universe. Go
for an inner spa that allows your inner glow to reach outwards.
4. Find Time
To Meet People: Take time to meet those who cross your path. Let
them unfold their purposes in your life graciously.
5. Give Undivided
Attention to Those you love: This is a powerful way to show that
you love them completely and understand the importance of the time
you spend with them.
6. Pamper Yourself:
Do something for yourself that you enjoy. Take a short stroll along
a nature walk. Go for a massage. Live a healthy lifestyle. Surround
yourself with people that you care and will care for you too. Tap
on any opportunities that will make you happy and improve your life.
Only when you take the first step to pamper yourself, will the universe
reciprocate by showering you with good things.
7. Be Flexible:
When you stick rigidly to your schedule, you will miss the opportunities
that are trying to catch your attention. When you pin your “beliefs”
tightly to your heart, you will be disillusioned when the Universe
proves you otherwise. An oak breaks apart under the stress of change
while a willow will bend and survive in a great wind. Learn to be
flexible and allow the path to unfold before you.
8. Be More Mindful:
Mindfulness is being fully aware of what happens in each moment.
Honor each moment. Appreciate each task you undertake. Embrace every
person that crosses your path. Living in fantasies and denial bring
you backwards. Be now, be here and be real.
9. Learn to
Appreciate: The ability to appreciate what we have, what we are
doing, who we are and whom we are with is the acknowledgement of
Now. The acknowledgement of now acts as a qualification that allows
us to progress to the next level by narrowing the gap between where
we are now and where we would like to be. This is an important element
that is often neglected.
10. Find Happiness
in Simplicity: Smile at everyone you pass by or meet today. Greet
your colleagues, bosses, associates and clients. Allow every sound,
every voice to form a melody. Enjoy the elegance of a breeze, the
creativity of the wind and the sweetness in the water. The greatest
joys will be revealed to you – the ability of being happy. |
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How
to choose your new home? |
By
Han-Teen SEE
Feng Shui, Fortune Reader and Master Healer (2005)
How
to choose your new home from Feng Shui perspective using visual
inspection? These sound tracks offer you basic and quick tips on
what to look out for when house viewing. You do not need to walk
around with a compass. No hassle and easy to follow. Download total
of 9 tracks for this topic.
Downloads:1,
2, 3, 4,
5, 6, 7,
8, 9
Welcome to Jmine
Living Gems, I am Hanteen. The topic that we are going to talk about
today is How to choose your new home. In this session, I am going
to provide you some basic Feng Shui tips on how you can choose your
new home purely using visual inspection. With this, I hope to spur
your interest in getting a complete Feng Shui review from professionals
to take care of the intangible aspects.
1. When you
are viewing an unit, ensure that all the windows are open. Stay
there for some time to check the movement of the air. If there is
no air movement or the air is very still, it mean hindrance to growth
in terms of wealth and career. It also implies health issues and
disharmony. Some of the house owners try to cover the stillness
by having their air-conditioner or fan on when you visit.
2. After checking
the air, you may start to walk around the house. When you go from
one room to another without feeling disoriented, it means that the
unit is a well layout place. A well layout place symbolizes smoothness
in doing things. If you feel disoriented after walking around, it
means that the house will bring you more complexity at work and
personal life.
3. When you
have short-listed the units that you are interested, do second or
third viewing at different time of the day. The best timing will
be once in the daytime, the other one in evening. If you visit there
in the daytime, check whether the unit is naturally bright. If it
is dark in the daytime, it is not desirable. Some housing agents
or sellers will on all the lights before you enter the house trying
to give a good cover up.
Occupants that
stay in dark units tend to be pessimistic. Due to these negativities,
they will not be able to see the opportunities that are install
for them. Those who stay in such unit will tend to quarrel with
each other, or start to blame each other for things that go wrong.
For young children, either they will get sick or scared easily.
Usually, they tend to have nightmares often.
4. Go around
the house and look out from the main door and all the windows. Check
whether are there any antennas, sharp edges from opposite buildings,
poles or bamboo poles that poke towards you. If there are, it is
not good. What is the impact of these poky objects? It represents
ill health, back stabbing, and obstacles to goals. In different
windows that you find this will impact on different occupants. If
you find this from the main door or window of living room, it will
impact on all the occupants. If you find them from the kitchen window,
it will impact on the female owner of the house. If you find them
outside a particular room, it will impact on the occupant of that
room.
5. Not only
looking for poky stuff outside windows and door, another critical
item to look out for is road. This does not mean that you should
freak out when you see any road from your unit. Let me elaborate
on what type of roads you have to beware of. Let’s say when
you are standing in front of any window of the house or main door,
if you can feel like the traffic is moving directly towards you
and or leaving from you, it is highly undesirable. In terms of wealth,
you cannot keep money. In terms of career, there will be more back
stabbing, and usually it is difficult to stay in the position for
long.
6. If there
is a MRT track or highway near your unit, it will be preferred to
choose an unit to be higher than the track or highway. If your unit
is lower, the occupants will have roadblocks to their career advancement.
All the mentioned
points are only quick tips in new house selection and can be easily
reviewed by visual inspection. If you are a house owner and found
the mentioned undesirable factors, please do not hurry to move out
of the house. There are always ways to counter attack the negative
influence of the physical factors. Besides, those mentioned tips
are only guidelines to which what to avoid if possible. They are
only part of the Feng Shui analysis. For full Feng Shui review,
do contact me at consult_jmine@yahoo.com. That is all for today.
Thank you for listening to Jmine Living Gems. Have a beautiful day. |
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